You are responsible for you. Period. We can expend our energy trying to fix others, heal others, educate others and that isn't all bad but sometimes we need to just worry about ourselves. It can be sad and hard when those we love are not pursuing greatness or doing well but we can pray for them and model better.
The most effective thing you can do for your connections & relationships is be the best you possible.
Time to elevate,
Chrissy